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Safe And HeldProverbs 18:10

The Tower Has a Door

This message is for the launderette hour on a Saturday morning, with eight words somebody said at the church door still going round, and no way to tell whether being safe would make you the one who broke the peace

The launderette on Wesley Street has eight machines and only six of them are honest, and everybody who comes in on a Saturday knows which six. A man in a football shirt has the corner seat and a newspaper he is not reading. Two students are splitting a bag of crisps and an argument about a film neither of them liked. Somebody's toddler is going along the row of empty chairs, touching every single one, in case one of them is different.

Halfway down the bench there is a woman with a blue plastic basket on her knees, and she is not watching her washing. She is holding a sentence, and it is heavier than the basket.

Somebody said it to her on Sunday. At the door, kindly, with a hand on her arm and the line moving past behind them: well, blessed are the peacemakers. That was all of it. Eight words, offered the way people offer a boiled sweet, and they have been going round in her ever since, faster than the drum, and they have arrived where sentences like that always arrive. So I am supposed to take this.

You know the sentence. Perhaps not those eight words, perhaps another eight, said by a good person who was not being cruel and who had no idea what they were handing you. It went in easily, the way a verse does. And it has been doing a job in you that nobody assigned it, which is the job of holding you still. This morning, with the machines turning and the toddler counting the chairs, you are asking a question you have never once asked out loud. Does being safe mean I have failed at peace?

The eight words were a blessing, not a job description

Jesus was sitting down when He said it. That detail is in the text and it is not decoration. He sat, the crowd came in close, and He began handing out blessings the way you hand out bread: blessed are the poor in spirit, blessed are those who mourn, blessed are the merciful. And in the middle of that basket of blessings, this one.

Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.Matthew 5:9

Look at the room He said it in. Nobody on that hillside was being handed a duty roster. They were being told, out loud and in front of everybody, who heaven already considered them to be. It is a naming. A naming is a gift.

You are named by God this morning, and the name does not wait until you have made yourself more available to be hurt. That sentence is not a favor anybody is doing you. Scripture puts the name inside the blessing itself, and the Holy Spirit is the one who makes a name settle on a person rather than merely be read at them. The blessing came with a name and not a leash.

Then look at the word He chose. Peace-maker. Somebody who makes a thing. Making costs the maker: the first move, the nerve, the awkward sentence, the long patience, the hope held out one more time. What that word has never meant, in any language this book has been written in or read in, is peace-absorber. The person who takes the blow so that the room stays quiet is not making peace. She is buying quiet, she is paying for it by herself, and no verse ever put her name on that arrangement.

The verse has a door in it

There is a sentence in Proverbs that people quote at funerals and print on cards, and almost nobody reads the verb in it.

The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous man runs into it and is safe.Proverbs 18:10

He is running. Not enduring in the open, not standing in the road to prove a point, not staying put to demonstrate his faith. Running, toward a tower, through a door, and the Bible calls him righteous while he is doing it.

God does not build a tower and then leave the door off. A refuge with no way in is a monument. The whole point of the picture is the gap in the wall at ground level, the way through, the space that says come in here, and the Maker of it cut that opening on purpose because He knew exactly what His people would need to do one day at speed.

You have a way in, and it was cut by God rather than granted to you by anybody's permission. The word says the righteous run and are safe, and it is the same Spirit who breathed that line who is nudging you toward the door this morning, gently, without shame. Safety is not the opposite of holiness. In that verse, safety is where the holy one ends up.

The people you were taught to admire ran

Paul went over a city wall in a basket, lowered through an opening by night, because there were people in Damascus waiting to kill him. Nobody has ever preached that as the low point of his ministry.

Jesus, more than once, simply left. They picked up stones in the temple and He hid Himself and went out. They pushed Him toward the edge of a hill in His own home town and He passed through the middle of them and walked away. The Prince of Peace did not stay to be stoned in order to prove that He was peaceful.

David went out of a window while his wife put a dummy in the bed. That is in your Bible. Nobody calls it cowardice.

You were never asked to out-suffer the apostles. Scripture shows people it calls faithful getting out of rooms, and the Holy Spirit who led them is the same one with you on this bench today. What ended in those stories was never peace. What ended was the reach of the person who meant harm.

God put two limits inside the command

Here is the verse people forget while they are quoting the other half of it.

If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.Romans 12:18

Two limits, in one line, put there by God Himself. If possible. So far as it depends on you. He wrote the caveats into His own instruction, which tells you He was never under the impression that peace was always available, or that it could be produced by one person working hard enough on her own.

You have a limit and it is holy, because it was drawn by the same hand that wrote the command. That is what stands written, and His Spirit is the one who keeps a tender person from reading a command as a life sentence. Everything past that limit is somebody else's to do, and it is God's to work on, and it is not yours to carry home in a blue basket every Saturday.

And now the plainest paragraph on this page, because a warm article that leaves this out is not warm, it is negligent. If somebody is hurting you, or you are afraid of what tonight looks like, please put this down and speak to a person who can actually stand next to you. In the United States you can call or text 988 and reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, and the National Domestic Violence Hotline is 1-800-799-7233. Wherever you are, your local emergency number is the right number when you are in danger, and there will be a service in your own country that knows your area far better than any page can. And then one more, which is not a helpline at all: one human being you trust, told today. None of that is a detour from what God is doing with you. Very often it is the shape of it.

The breakthrough

So here it is, on a bench, at half past ten, with your washing going round.

God is not standing at the end of this waiting for you to become braver. He is not grading your years of quiet, and He is not disappointed at how long the sentence has been going round in you. He is a tower with a door in the bottom of it, and He is waiting to be run to, and the running is the faith, not the failure of it. You are safe inside a Name rather than inside anybody’s approval, and the door of it was open before you sat down on that bench. Proverbs 18:10 puts the safety in the Name rather than in your endurance, and the Holy Spirit is the one who makes a tower feel like a place rather than a phrase.

The eight words at the church door were said by somebody who meant well and got it wrong. You can honor that person and refuse their sentence in the same breath, because the sentence was never theirs to give and the blessing was never theirs to withhold.

Peace is still yours to make. Making it may be a long piece of work, and much of it may have to wait for a season safer than this one. That is not a delay in your obedience. That is the order God Himself put things in.

Declare this over yourself

Say these where you can hear yourself. You are in Christ and Christ is in you, so the authority to name what is happening to you has been given to you, and it does not need signing off by the person who quoted the verse at the door. Scripture is the ground under these lines, the Holy Spirit is the one who carries them, and however He answers the bigger things in this house, that part is His and it always was. What is being asked of you here is small. It is the size of one sentence said out loud in a launderette while the machines are still turning. Small is enough. It always has been, and it is enough because of whose Name it is spoken in and never because of how much of it you can muster.

  1. Sentence they said at the door, you are not Scripture and you do not get to hold me still. The blessing Jesus spoke on that hillside came with a name and not a leash, and I am keeping the name and handing the sentence back to the door it came from.
  2. Fear that I am the difficult one, you have no ground here. The Holy Spirit taught me the difference between quiet and peace, Scripture never once made my silence the price of anybody's blessing, and in the name of Jesus I am putting that price down.
  3. Lord, You are a strong tower and You cut a door into Yourself. I am walking through it this morning, and I thank You, because You have never once called it cowardice when one of Your own came in through the opening You made.

Why we ask you to say these out loud

The word this stands on

Proverbs 18:10

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